September 23, 2019

sex workers don’t want saving

The tactics employed by the club’s opponents are well established and – unlike in this case – usually successful. Campaigns to revoke the licences of strip clubs on the grounds that they exploit women and attract sexually depraved men are nothing new. One of the earliest campaigns was led by the New York Society for the Suppression of Vice which was established in 1873, and targeted burlesque theatres, calling them the “habitats of sex crazed perverts”. Anti-vice activists would sneak into the clubs and report the “disorderly” and “lewd” acts they saw on stage to the licensing committee, demanding the venue’s licence be revoked.

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  1. But what has changed in the intervening 77 years is that the sex workers at the centre of these debates are finally being allowed to speak for themselves. And to the surprise of many feminist groups, it turns out that they do not want saving.

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  2. The Future is Female
    June 1 ·
    It's 2019 and it's time to face it... male chastity is becoming mainstream. Every day, more and more Women are discovering the many benefits of enforced male chastity and more and more Women are locking up their males and controlling their erections and orgasms. In fact male chastity has become so popular that male chastity devices are now the second best selling sex toys, right after dildos and vibrators. And the majority of the consumers buying male chastity cages are Women. But to any Woman who has already experienced life with male chastity, its popularity comes as no surprise. The sexual and emotional rewards reaped by the Woman who keeps Her male locked are nothing short of life altering. A locked, denied male is attentive, affectionate, passionate, and doting. He will shower you with affection and hang onto your every word. He lives to make (and keep) you happy. Your sex life will be all about you. With his penis safely locked away, ignored and denied, his focus will be totally on you and your pleasure. Unable to masturbate, ejaculate, or even touch himself, his sexual energy will only build and build with every horny thought that passes through his sex-centered male brain. Forbidden any release of his own, he will pour all his pent up sexual energy into serving you in any (and every) way that you want. He will become in tune with the reactions of your body. He will follow your direction to the letter. And without the use of his penis (now owned and controlled by you), he will master his techniques with his tongue and his fingers and you will soon find yourself enjoying orgasmic bliss and sexual satisfaction like never before. And as if that wasn't enough, the benefits of strict enforced male chastity don't end in the bedroom. The combination of his constant arousal and no release will flood his brain with the neurochemical dopamine and dopamine controls motivation, memory, attention and emotional response. This saturation of dopamine will basically rewire his brain, putting you at the epicenter of his whole universe. You will be the most important thing in the world to him and he will put all his energy and effort into making you happy. And you won't have any more arguments. You will call all the shots and he will obey your every word. You'll control the relationship, your home, the finances, your sex life, and his locked penis. You will make all the decisions and give all the orders and he will submit to all your wishes and carry out all your commands. I've been married for four years and I've had my husband Aidan locked in chastity for three. Had I known what life would be with his penis locked in its tiny little cage, I would have locked it up much, much sooner.

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    1. My husband has a good job and makes real good money but he doesn't even have access to the bank account his paychecks are directly deposited into every other week. I have all the debit cards, all the credit cards, and sole access to the checking and savings accounts that are funded by the salary he earns. Oh, and I don't work. When we first got married, we both had full time jobs and even with two incomes we were really struggling to make ends meet. But all that changed when I locked him in chastity. By taking away his masturbatory freedom and restricting his orgasms, I forced him to save all the energy he was losing through daily release, both during our (pretty disappointing) lovemaking and all the extra times he released himself into the toilet when he would sneak away into the bathroom to take matters into his own hands. Suddenly, he was more energetic than I had ever seen him to be before. On top of that, with all of his attention and focus on me (his keyholder), he became extremely motivated to please me in every way he possibly could. With that tiny locked cage I controlled his penis, his erections, and his orgasms, but control of literally everything else in our marriage naturally fell into my hands soon after. Aidan became more driven and more motivated than ever. His motivation was to please me, which (among other things) meant providing a higher standard of living for me. He became much more focused at work. Turns out before he was caged, he had made a habit of sneaking away from his desk several times throughout the day to the men's room stall, where he would watch porn on his phone and masturbate into the toilet. He freely admitted this to me after a few weeks in chastity. Being caged has made him much more open and honest with me. He doesn't hide anything from me anymore. With renewed focus and attention at work, without the distraction of his masturbation habit, his bosses started noticing his new work ethic and they offered him additional projects, which he took on with impressive results.
      Promotions followed shortly after. I took over the finances and he surrendered his debit card, checks and credit cards to me. He was making more money, plus he wasn't wasting money on buying all the silly boy toys he had been before. It wasn't long after that I quit my job. I didn't need to work anymore. He was making a lot more money, spending a lot less on wasteful things, and as it turns out, I am much better at managing money than my husband is. Soon we had traded up for a bigger, better home. We upgraded our cars. And I traded up for a bigger and better cock to satisfy me in the bedroom. I had initially introduced male chastity into our marriage because my Sister Hannah had suggested it could improve our relationship and our dissatisfactory and disappointing sex life. It had really improved my Sister's relationship so I had high hopes it could do the same for mine. And it really worked. Before he was locked, Aidan was mediocre at best with his tongue, but after a couple weeks in chastity he was eating me like a fat kid eats cake. And the longer he's been caged the better his oral talents get.

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    2. I was having so many more orgasm with his penis locked away and limp than I ever was when it was free and free to become erect. I really wasn't missing his penis at all, But honestly I really didn't think I would miss it. At less than six inches, Aiden is on the small side if you know what I mean. And I have always been a "bigger is better" kind of Girl so his little dick really never was enough to satisfy me. And in the first year of our marriage with night after night of really disappointing sex, I really grew to resent my husband's little penis. He had no trouble getting off. He got his every time. But I was almost always left horny and frustrated while he rolled over and fell asleep as I masturbated while lying in the wet spot. And Aidan was perfectly fine with his undersized appendage. He got his three pumps and dump inside his wife almost every night of the week. Plus he was jerking off in the bathroom how many times a day. Yeah that little pink pecker was getting off plenty but it never could get me off at all. And every night it slipped out of me, leaving its watery mess behind and retreating between my husband's legs while I was forced to finish myself, I grew to resent it even more and more. Secretly, I was starting to hate the little thing and when I first slid it inside Aiden's tiny new chastity cage, encasing the inadequate organ in hard, tight plastic, I felt vindicated. And when I closed the padlock and I heard it click into place, I smiled. Justice had been served. Now three years later, Aidan's little penis is still safely locked away, denied, ignored, and exactly where it belongs. Safe from my husband's hands and safe from disappointing any Woman for doing a job it is totally not up to the challenge to do. I've downsized his cage already because after a year in chastity his penis wasn't even big enough to fill the little cage I had bought him anymore. So we traded down for a smaller, tighter one. And I think it might be time to downsize again. Meanwhile, I'm happier than ever and having more orgasms than ever before in my life. My husband's penis isn't missed at all. He eats me out every night and gives me as many orgasms as I want. Something he never was able to do with his dick. And on top of all the orgasms I'm having with my husband's tongue, I have had a steady string of lovers for two and a half years. All of them well endowed and big enough to hit the right spots and make me cum the way a real cock is supposed to make a Woman cum. My newest lover, DeSean, has the biggest cock I've ever had in my life. Honestly when I hold it up next to Aidan's tiny caged penis, you really would never guess that both organs are supposed to do the same things and function in the same ways. They are not even remotely similar.
      ~ Celestina

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